Winter is beautiful. Crisp air, fresh snow, cozy campfires, hot cocoa, and— dry skin. Why can’t your skin just enjoy winter as much as the rest of us? It’s okay. We’ve all been there. Your face is red, flakey, and sooo dry. Luckily, you’ve stumbled upon this blog post and will now obtain the knowledge to fix this issue. Whether you want your skin to look new, hydrated, or just… not dry, I have an easy face mask for you.
**For best results, wash face with warm water or soak with a warm towel before applying a mask. This both softens the skin and opens your pores, making the mask more effective.**
For Dry Skin
If your skin is suffering from the cold, leaving it dry and irritated, you need to moisturize, so try this:
Cucumber+Aloe Vera Mask
2 tbsp aloe vera
Cut up the cucumber, then mix it in a blender, as much as you can. Mix it with the aloe vera and apply to skin. After it dries (approx. 30 minutes), rinse off with cool water and pat dry with a towel.
You can either make it, or buy one here 🙂
1 tbsp honey
1 tbsp olive oil
Mash the banana, mix with the honey, and apply. Leave it on for 20-30 minutes, then rinse it off with cool water and pat dry with a towel.
Or try this cruelty-free honey and lavender face mask!
For Flakey Skin
2tbsp epsom salt
Mix the ingredients until they are well blended, forming a spreadable paste. Smooth on skin and leave it for around 30 minutes, until it dries. Wash with cool water, and pat dry with a fuzzy towel.
Olive Oil+Brown SugarScrub
Let it be said that this is less of a face mask, and more of a face scrub. Which in the case of flaking skin, is much needed.
1 tbsp brown sugar
1-ish tsp olive oil
Mix ingredients. Rub on face, concentrating on problematic areas, then rinse. Be sure to moisturize after, your skin will be sensitive and will likely dry out quickly. You can also follow with a face mask for dry skin (see above).
Or you can buy an organic brown sugar scrub by clicking this link 🙂
Well, there you have it. Let me know how it goes, I’m wishing you all beautiful skin and a happy 2021!
Relationships are tough. There will always be ups and downs, but how are you supposed to know what’s normal? How can you tell if your partner is just going through a rough time, or if they’re actually toxic? I’ve done a bit of dating in my time, and unfortunately, the majority of it wasn’t good. The thing is, when I was in a toxic relationship, I had NO IDEA. I thought the stuff I went through with my partner was normal. So, time after time, I dated people who were extremely toxic for me, because I thought that a person with the quality of toxicity was my “type”. It took years of defending my choice of boyfriend to everyone around me before I realized it was wrong. That toxic relationships exist, and that I had a bad habit of finding myself in them.
**This will be separated into 2 posts because it is important and i’d like to be able to talk about each point a bit**
1. Trying to Isolate You
If your special someone in your life can’t handle you having any other friends, run away. This could easily be played off as a joke by saying things like, “I just want you all to myself”, but if it actually effects your relationship with your friends, it’s toxic.
Now, hear me say that your romantic relationship will always have an effect on your friendships. When you become involved with someone, your whole world will change. However, just because you spend less time with your friends to make room for the person you’re dating does not mean they are isolating you. Isolation looks like jealously, anger, and fits when you spend time with other people.
I broke up with my first real (and very toxic) boyfriend because every time I hung out with my best friend, he would go INSANE. Which, after 6 months, I finally realized was an issue.
2. They Don’t Respect You.
Oh my goodness. The amount of relationships I see these days where the woman has no respect is unbelievable. This isn’t always based on gender though. If your person is always concerned about themselves (see narcissistic), and never about you, well that certainly is a problem.
I have a theory, that the single most important thing a relationship must have is mutual respect. Yes, more important than love. I know, it’s a crazy thought. You can’t always make things work because you love each other- though I did used to believe that love conquers all. However, mutual RESPECT will get you through anything. The key word being mutual.
3. You Are Not a Priority (But They are for You)
Not feeling prioritized is a huge red flag. Relationships are two-way streets. No, you cannot put in all the effort so that your partner doesn’t have to do anything. It just doesn’t work that way. That’s called parenthood. Ever heard the quote, “If a man wants to be with you, he will be”, or something along those lines? Same goes for women. If someone truly wants to be with you, you will know based on the effort they put into their relationship with you.
4. You Can’t Talk About Issues Without Fighting
Actually, you can’t talk about anything without fighting. Seriously, if you feel the need to walk on eggshells around your partner to avoid conflict, that’s bad. If simple conversations like where you’re going to eat, what you did today, or what you liked about that movie turns into an argument, then what’s the point? You should be in a relationship with someone because you enjoy talking to them about things. Things that you can’t talk with other people. Having hard conversations is part of being in a relationship. If you can’t even talk about what restaurant you’re going to, how can you talk about important things: sharing finances, having kids, raising kids, job changes, family issues, marriage, etc.
5. Double Standards
YOU can’t go out on Friday nights, but he can. He needs his boy’s night. She needs to meet your friends, but you can’t meet hers. They always need to know what you’re doing, but always keep their whereabouts a secret. They can flirt with others and it’s harmless, when you do it its cheating. You can’t have friends of the opposite sex, but they can! My ex’s best friend was a girl, and got insanely jealous when I talked to another guy. He had sleepovers in the same bed as her (I lived with my strict christian parents so I couldn’t even do that with him). He also moved in with is ex-girlfriend. He made me feel insane to be jealous. Yet I couldn’t even look at another guy, or he had to know every detail.
6. They Make You Feel Like You Need Them
Oh my gosh. This is the worst. Don’t let people do things for you with the wrong intentions. Make sure you can take care of yourself. An example would be someone driving you everywhere, because you don’t have a car. Now, temporarily, this is okay. But if its consistent or if they hold it over your head, that’s a serious issue. If they say things implying that you need them, or threaten to not do something, like drive you, that’s manipulation. If one person overly depends on another in a relationship, it’s unhealthy. Relationships should be mutually beneficial.
I put this one at the end because I’d like to spend a little time on it. If you want an entire post dedicated to gaslighting, let me know in the comments.
Gaslighting, by definition is, “manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity.”
Gaslighting is the worst kind of manipulation in my opinion, the guilty party makes the innocent one feel guilty and crazy for being right. 99% of the time if you feel like something is up, it is. If you can’t trust your partner, or if they make you feel insecure and unsure of yourself, get tf out. Relationships should add to your happiness and confidence, not take away from it. Always remember to put yourself first, your happiness should not be the cost of your partner’s happiness. Your well-being is not the price of your partner’s comfort. You are amazing and deserve someone who can both see that, and treat you like you are. You are a MFing queen (or king), and anyone who can’t see that isn’t worthy to date you.
The most obvious and common instance is cheating. If the man is cheating, and the woman questions him, he may call her crazy. If she asks about his relationship with another female, he’ll call her paranoid. If she asks where he was last night, he’ll tell her to stop stalking him. Other words are possessive, insane, clingy, insecure, jealous, etc.
Like I mentioned on #5, I once had a boyfriend who had a female best friend. They had been best. friends for years, he told me at the beginning he wouldn’t abandon her for a relationship (they had history of his toxic ex). That was fine with me. She was funny and very outgoing. The problem was, they would spend the night together all the time. They would drink and do drugs together, sleep in the same bed, when I was uncomfortable he would remind me that he wouldn’t abandon her. I never asked him to, I just wanted a little respect. Of course, all his friends were on his side. He called me clingy, crazy, manipulative, and made all of his friends hate me.
Then it got worse. His toxic ex, whom he told me he had blocked (not at my request), left her parents house. They started living together at their friend’s house (it was more of a crack house I guess..) And then I got really uncomfortable. I also found out that he had been the one to drive 30minutes to get her. And now they were sleeping in the same room. He also had told me he couldn’t resist her sexually. I was going insane over this, meanwhile he was hurling insults at me. Telling me she had nowhere to go, that nothing was going on, he was just helping her. After he dumped me, he brought her on a date into the coffee shop where I worked- and gave me a panic attack. This resulted in me getting fired because it was so bad I couldn’t work the rest of my shift. He did it on a dare, just to mess with me. He had that much power over me emotionally, and I never should have let him.
So if your partner often makes you feel small, crazy, insecure, or like you’re the reason you can’t trust them, that’s gaslighting. If there’s nothing to hide, they won’t mind showing you everything. I’m not saying go through your partner’s phone every day. But if you get to the point where you feel so uncomfortable that you need to, there should be no issue (if you ask. don’t do it behind their back).
Still Don’t Know?
If you’re still unsure, here’s a tip: make a list of the positive and negative things you are getting out of the relationship. Rate each thing on a scale of 1 to 5, and add up the points on each side. This is because if you simply count the things, you might stay with a guy who’s terrible because he buys you lunch sometimes. Don’t use one time events either! Ex: he bought me flowers that one time…
Come up with at least 5 on each side. If the score comes out even or negative… maybe look into why you’re together. Here’s an example.
open with each other
never pays $$$
hates my friends
parents love them
doesn’t want kids
makes me laugh
can be stubborn
positive: 14; Negative:-17
I made this list of some of the most obvious things that are not okay in a relationship. It by all means doesn’t cover every single aspect of a toxic relationship. Let me tell you something: if you found yourself reading this list, either defending your partner or telling yourself “Yeah but…*insert defense here*”, then you’re probably in a toxic relationship. Although these things may seem obvious to some, when they actually take place in your relationship it can be hard to recognize. It may sound cliche, but some things are cliche because they’re right- given some time, things will get better.
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“Autumn shows us how beautiful it is to let things go”~Unknown
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1. Coffee Filter Turkey
You can put these on magnets and attach them to the fridge, put them in your window, or just leave them standing up! Find the tutorial here.
2. Turkey Door Decor
If you live in a dorm, this is a really cute (and cheap) idea. Find the tutorial here.
3. Harvest Sign
You can easily adjust the size, by using a smaller piece of wood and these 4″ stencils. Find the step-by-step tutorial here.
4. Twig Letter
This cute, rustic craft is perfect for the fall season. Plus, it’s very simple and cheap. You can learn how to make it here. Want to spell out a word? Get the wooden alphabet here.
5. Terracotta Scare Crow
This is the perfect decoration for both inside and outside this season. Find the tutorial for this charming little fall scarecrow here.
6. Terracotta Pumpkin
A pumpkin that holds candy? Yes, please. Find the full tutorial here, and get your pots here.
7. Book Page Pumpkins
Express your inner bookworm, upcycle an old book, and get an adorable decoration out of it! You can easily make this craft by following these instructions.
8. Apple Candles
It’s a candle. In an apple. Click here to learn how to make them. Don’t have any white candles? No worries, you can get some on Amazon.
9. Leaf Bowl
You can find a tutorial on how to make this colorful fall craft here.
10. Colorful Hanging Leaves
This easy DIY is simple yet beautiful. I absolutely love all the different colors! Just follow this easy how-to and you’ll be on your way to a fabulous wall decoration. Need some leaves? Click here to get them for under $10 on Amazon.
11. Simple Burlap Wreath
The neutral tones provide a neat and welcoming entrance. The flower makes this burlap wreath that much more elegant.
12. Floral Frame Door Wreath
Who doesn’t want two door frames? Ha, ha. But seriously, this craft is totally worthy of your time. This rustic frame from Amazon might save you some decorating!
13. Glitter Pumpkin
Don’t let the Fall season dull your sparkle. Click here to find out how to make these glittering gourds, and click here to get 4oz gold glitter on Amazon.
14. Pumpkin Topiary
This festive planter is great for the fall season. Find the tutorial here.
15. Pumpkin Man
Do you know the pumpkin man? I met him once. He didn’t talk much. Follow this link to make one of your own!
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College changes the way we live. You’re completely responsible for yourself, and even if you’re used to doing things on your own, not having help as an option is completely different. Every family situation is different. Every individual has different needs. So whether you’re paying for your own college, having your parents pay, or going on a scholarship, you’ll need to learn how to manage your finances. This is where budgeting comes in.
For the sake of this post, I’m going to do a monthly budget. You can alter the time period to weekly, bi-weekly, even yearly. To get started, think about what your monthly income is. Pick a number you know you will always make, to avoid falling behind financially. For instance, if you’re a waitress who gets paid hourly as well as tips, assume you have a bad month and don’t make a ton. Use that “bad” number as your budget. Let’s just use $200 as an example.
You make $200 on a bad month, so your monthly budget is $200.
Secondly, make a list of everything you’ll need to pay for every month. This could be a rather long list, so try to keep it vague. Getting too specific will just stretch you and your money.
Overall, there’s 5 things that should always be on your list.
Make sure you include insurance (medical, vehicle, etc). Some additional costs might include:
Monthly subscriptions (Netflix, Spotify, etc)
Next, subtract set monthly expenses- things that you will always need to pay for that will always be the same price (rent, insurance, subscriptions, etc.). It’s good to get this out of the way first, since you can’t cut back here. What you’re left with is your actual budget.
You have a $200 monthly budget. You pay $10 in subscriptions each month. So you really have $190 to budget.
After you’ve subtracted your fixed payments, order your remaining items by importance (most to least).
If you have prescription medication, this is obviously the most important item on your list. Groceries are also important- humans need to eat. No, you’re not an alien. Next, we have toiletries. Although you CAN live without deodorant, I prefer you use it. So does your neighbor. I checked. Fourth on the list is transportation. This is easier to work around sometimes. Walking or biking are great alternatives to save money. If you go to school or work too far away, carpooling is another great way to keep your bank account positive. Plus, you can use the HOV lane and it’s good for the environment. win-win. Lastly, we have spending money. This is for clothes, haircuts, make-up, etc.
We’re almost done, I promise. After you have your list, assign the amount you’d like to spend each month to each item on the list. As much as you’d like to spend $500 on marvel movies and t-shirts, try to keep your budget in mind. You don’t have to stick to the exact number.
Now remember, you only actually have $190 to budget. Add up your costs and see what you get.
$20+$20+$20+$50+$100 = $210
Don’t worry that it’s over your budget (not yet anyways). This is why we ordered them by importance. So, to get to $190, we have to subtract $20 from the lowest items on the list. There are two obvious options here:
Subtract all of your spending money. It’s not a necessity, so it goes.
Subtract $10 from your spending money, and $10 from your transportation money. You can make this up by walking, biking, carpooling, or even working from home.
Personally, I think that it’s important to be able to spoil yourself. Even if it’s only with $10. How many chocolate bars can you buy with that? Or you could rent a movie. Get yourself a coffee. $10 can be a lot.
Transportation- $40 ($50-$10)
Spending- $10 ($20-$10)
Don’t worry, I did the math for you.
$10+$20+$20+$40+$100 = $190
Well, there you go! Making a budget is easy- sticking to it is hard. Here are some tips to help you save money.
Pay with cash. You know exactly how much you can spend and are a lot less likely to go over.
Factor in tax. Whip out your phone and calculate your total before you check out.
Pay with exact change. If your total is $1.08, and you pay with two $1 bills, you’ll get 92 cents back. That’s almost a dollar. Soon enough, you’ll have $7 in change that you’ll never use.
Make a list of what you need. This will help you from throwing things you don’t need in the basket.
Cut back wherever you can. This is an easy way to save money. Bike or carpool instead of paying for gas. Rent a movie instead of going to see one. Eat in or use your meal plan if you have one instead of eating out. If you do go out, get one meal and water. Don’t splurge on appetizers and deserts, you’re poor.
Tip: Use a monthly budget planner, like the one here, to help you keep tabs on your spending.
I hope this helped you get started on saving money. Living on what you make in college is hard, but it is doable. If you have any more money-saving ideas, leave it in the comments! Please like, and subscribe for more content!
Halloween is just around the corner. I absolutely love Halloween. It’s literally a holiday where you get to dress up like your favorite fictional character- which is called cosplay every other day of the year- and get free candy! What’s not to love?
If you’re like me, and you have an obsession with decorating every chance possible, Halloween is a great opportunity to showcase your decorating skills. To show that you are indeed, a Thrifty Chick *insert witchy cackle*. However, one problem I encounter (way too often) is that decorating takes money. Well, look no further. I’m going to share 5 cheap Halloween decorations you can make on a budget.
The materials you will need for this are:
Paper (black if available)
Black paint or paint pen (optional)
A ceiling fan
Print out a free bat template like the ones found here. You will need 5.
You can either print multiple or simply trace it onto another piece of paper. I just used white paper and traced the bats in different sizes.
Cut out your bats and fold them in half (symmetrically).
If you are using white paper, use black paint or a paint pen to fill in the bat (omit this step if you are using black paper).
Poke 2 holes in the middle of the bat (on the folded line), closer to the head.
Loop the string through both holes and tie it in a knot.
You should essentially have a paper bat on a leash. Name it Carrie and walk it around the neighborhood. Ask people if they would like to pet Carrie.
Okay maybe don’t do that.
But seriously. Using a sturdy surface, (eg. bed, table, chair- but not the rolly kind) preferably a step ladder, tape the end of the string to the end of each fan blade. Make sure it’s secure.
Turn on the fan and watch the bats fly!
2. Bloody Candles
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Blood-erm, I mean red wax (crayons work)
The tutorial for these super easy and cheap blood dripping candles can be foundhere
Hello reader! My name is Elle, and I am a college student. I’m starting this blog because I have a lot of free time, and not a lot of friends. Covid has taken away many opportunities to make friends as a freshman, so, here I am, starting a blog.
I’ll start with a bit about me. As previously stated, I am a freshman in college. I am majoring in Graphic Design, because they say if you do what you love, you’ll never work a day in your life. I had a bit of a rough upbringing, and struggle severely with depression and anxiety (I am doing much better now). I was a very strange child… to put it nicely. Okay, I was a complete weirdo. To be fair, I am a middle child and got most of my social skills from reading books.
Here’s a few random facts about me:
I’m a pisces
I have a dog, whom I adore
I am gluten free (NOT by choice)
I love poetry
Halloween in my favorite holiday
I’m an introvert to the max, so starting a blog feels kinda weird to me
I really want to adopt
My favorite food is sushi
So, what kind of blog is the Thrifty Chick? I’m so glad you asked;) I am a creative and expressive broke individual who wants to share my experiences with other creative, expressive, broke individuals. This blog is everything fun, creative, and cheap. I’ve been DIYing since before I can remember. Like, I actually can’t remember a time when I wasn’t making things.
This blog will be basic how to’s, top number lists, advice columns, and personal entries. Some of the topics I will cover are:
And other miscellaneous things… I don’t like confinement.
So, yeah.. that’s that. Stay tuned for more posts, I haven’t worked out a schedule yet, but there will be more!
PS. Here’s a picture of my dog! Her name is Rupi (After Rupi Kaur, the most amazing poet of all time), and she’s my baby!